Although both Sandra Laing's parents were white South Africans, she looked black. Sandra Laing had Laings girls who fuck black men personals doing her sums quietly when a boy was sent to fetch her from her classroom. In the principal's office, two khaki-uniformed officers were waiting. He offered no explanation, and nor did the police officers who perspnals her off the premises.
It was March 10, On Robben Island, in persoanls sea off Cape Town, Nelson Mandela was serving the second year of a life sentence for sabotage. And through a quirk of genetics, ten-year-old Sandra was about to become another potent symbol of a nation built on race and prejudice. Her African features were almost certainly a throwback to an unknown ancestor whose DNA, having lain dormant for generations, had emerged in her. But when Sandra was a Laings girls who fuck black men personals, this aspect of genetics was unknown and there was no such thing as a DNA test.
There was only the cruel and relentless gossip suggesting that her mother had had an affair with a black man. For four years, teachers and the parents of other pupils at her all-white primary school had fought to have her pereonals on the grounds that gir,s was of mixed race. Finally, they had succeeded.
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Even today, hers is a name with which most South Africans are familiar. But only one person knows the true cost of the decision, that day, to hound a girl from her school, and that is Sandra herself. A fascinating new book by journalist Judith Stone reveals the full extent of the whp traumas Sandra Laings girls who fuck black men personals. As a confused teenager she eloped with a black man, causing her parents to disown her.
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She went on to suffer domestic violence, destitution and the death of one of her six children. Although reunited with her mother, she was never reconciled with her father and to this day, her two brothers refuse to see her. Sandra and her mother were finally reconciled not long before the older woman's death. Now 53, Sandra is the daughter of shopkeepers from the Eastern Transvaal since renamed Mpumalanga.
Abraham Laing Laings girls who fuck black men personals his wife, Sannie, could see from the moment she was born that her skin was girld than their own and that blaxk her elder brother Leon, yet they refused to acknowledge what was in front of them.
Both Sannie, who American adult channel of Dutch descent, and Abraham, whose family originated from Germany, could trace back their white ancestry through several generations.
As Afrikaners, they had been indoctrinated in the Boer belief that to be white was pure and that people of mixed race were unstable and less intelligent.
They kept Sandra out of the sun and, in their rural community, no one drew attention to her toffee-coloured complexion until she started school. Sandra remembers, early in her first year at Laings girls who fuck black men personals school, a group of girls began teasing her incessantly.
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They called her 'Blackie' and ' Frizzhead' and refused to use the water fountain after she'd drunk from it. Her mother told Laings girls who fuck black men personals not to worry about it, but still Sannie sent off for a bottle of hair whk which burned like battery acid. Patches of Sandra's hair fell out, and when it grew back, it was as curly as ever.
The rumours that Sannie must have slept with a black man were rife and, consequently, the entire family were shunned at church and on the streets.
Local parents began to take their children out of the school, and the principal wrote to the education authorities declaring himself certain that Sandra was of mixed blood.
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For Abraham, the idea that his wife might have consorted with a black man, making him the most humiliated of cuckolds, was unthinkable under South Africa's Immorality Acts, it was illegal to have sex with, or Laings girls who fuck black men personals kiss, a member of another race. Unpleasant, but far more bearable was the suggestion that he or his wife had a non-white branch near the root of their family tree.
Such an argument turns out to be entirely conceivable. According to research published in the early Seventies, about 8 per cent of the genes of any modern Afrikaner are non-white. More recent studies put the number slightly higher, at 11 per cent. Of the 25, or so genes that determine inheritable characteristics, only a tiny fraction have to do with skin colour, hair texture and other visible markers of race.
Abraham and Sannie could not call upon such scientific evidence. Back then, no paternity test could prove beyond doubt that Abraham was Sandra's father. But Laings girls who fuck black men personals blood test that could rule out paternity was available.
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Both he and Sannie signed an affidavit swearing that they were Sandra's blacl parents. Sandra remains adamant that her mother wouldn't have cheated on her father. The likeness is startling. Adriaan's baby hair is the same froth of tight curls, but his skin just light enough for him to have escaped Looking for a third him fate.
Although Sandra was officially 'white' again, nine schools refused to take her and she was enrolled at Laings girls who fuck black men personals convent run by Irish nuns. She worried that history would repeat itself, but quickly made new friends among the all-white pupils.
During persnals holidays, Sandra worked with her mother in the family's general store. She liked chatting with the customers, especially Petrus Zwane, a Swazi vegetable seller. She knew Petrus had a wife and three children, but by the time she turned 14, she burned with a schoolgirl crush.
One day, in the pine forest behind the Laings' house, Petrus kissed her. Not long after that, they made love for the first time. Their affair continued for several months before Laings girls who fuck black men personals parents found out. He shouted: I try to get you in a good school and now you're busy with kaffirs!
Two days later, as Petrus drove up to the petrol pump in front of the Laings' shop, Abraham pulled his pistol on him. My mother told Petrus to go and never come back. The affair created an unbridgeable chasm between Abraham and his daughter.
Within a year, convinced that her father no longer loved her, Sandra eloped with Petrus. After fleeing, both of them were arrested.
He served a month in jail; she was held for two Adult wants sex Desmet. After her release, Petrus took her to his parents' home in Swaziland, where Sandra became an unofficial 'small wife' to Petrus's senior first wife, Lisa.
She settled well with her new family. I felt at home. They were like my Laings girls who fuck black men personals people,' she says.
Sandra kept in occasional phone contact with her mother, and when, a year later, aged 16, she gave birth to her first child, Henry, she rang Sannie. Petrus dropped off Sandra and Henry close to the shop.
Sannie held her grandson and kissed him, but Sannie didn't invite Sandra into the house. My mother was scared my father Laings girls who fuck black men personals come. She said I must look after myself, and also that I should not make contact with her again,' says Sandra. No one could give her a forwarding address for her parents. In MaySandra's third child, a daughter called Jenny, died aged seven months of a fever.
Sandra and Petrus were devastated.
He began to drink heavily and Sandra became convinced he blamed her for Jenny's death. He accused her of fooling around with other men and turned violent. At first, he slapped her. Then ppersonals began hitting her with a sjambok, a whip traditionally made of leather thongs or rhinoceros hide.
She worried that somehow Petrus's anger was her fault.
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She feared he would kill her and decided it was time to flee. One chilly winter afternoon in Julyshe Laings girls who fuck black men personals away with David Gjrls, a friend of Petrus's, taking their two children, Henry and Elsie, with her.
The move precipitated a new, desperate phase in her life, when David abandoned her peronals their son, Prins, was born in March To support her children, Sandra took on a cleaning job, but within a year she became seriously ill.
Doctors diagnosed cancer of Laings girls who fuck black men personals womb, and because she needed surgery, she was persuaded to have her three children fostered. But by then, it was too late. Sandra had lost Henry, Elsie and Prins to the welfare system, and although she continued to see them every other weekend, it would be nine years before she could reclaim them.
Adrift and bereft for her lost children, she fell into another relationship and had another child, Anthony.
Again, the father left her before her baby was born. Finally, inSandra's life turned a corner when a truck driver called Johannes Motlaung began courting her. She had her sixth and last child, Steve, with Johannes in Shortly afterwards, her three elder children were returned to her.
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Her daughter, Elsie, remembers being surprised to see her mother standing at the school gate. I was really glad.
I cried. She said she didn't have money, and I said: Once her family was all under one roof, Sandra felt strong enough to reignite Laings girls who fuck black men personals search for her own mother and father. She traced a cousin, Susanna, who told her that her father had died of throat cancer a year earlier.
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I had wanted to ask him for forgiveness before he died,' says Sandra. Susanna also gave Sandra her mother's phone number. She called, and they spoke for the first time in 16 years.Getting Laid Lexington-fayette
She asked how many children I had.